I sometimes get asked “Wouldn’t your life be perfect if you had a baby?”.
My answer … No “I have a pretty damn near perfect life right now”.
I have a wonderful and supportive husband, an amazing family, two gorgeous nephews that light up my world, a beautiful home we have made our own and a job that I love and of course my health (which people take for granted on a regular basis).
Adding a baby to the mix will enhance it in ways I never felt possible but I don’t feel as if my life isn’t perfect or happy because I don’t have a baby.
Don’t get me wrong, I have an earning so deep inside that it sometimes/ almost always aches to have a wee one but my life won’t be over if IVF doesn’t work. I will just carry on with a smile on my face and cherish what I have because I am incredibly lucky to have what I have.